When I approach a task with a perfectionist mindset, I tend to procrastinate.
My worry that the result needs to be perfect can cause me to put off or not even attempt the job.
If I procrastinate on too many projects, I get overwhelmed. I then start to "beat myself up" with negative thinking and blame.
Of course, I eventually end up feeling depressed.
Does this sound familiar to you?
This path can happen on small or large scales and on everything from work projects to housekeeping.
One way to combat the
perfectionism is to plan to just conquer 80% of the job. Or simply tell yourself, you're just going to work on it for 5 minutes.
Chances are high that once you
start working on the project, inertia will take over and you'll keep going.
I think what is most important is recognizing the cycle.
Once you notice that you're on this path, you can take steps to stop it. Often that means asking for help.
If you've already reached the point of depression, please take action. It might help to put on some motivational music and go for an energetic walk.
Talk to other people who have been through
the same challenge.
But if you're having suicidal thoughts, please get medical help.
Remind yourself
that perfection is not the goal. True success comes from hard work that is in balance with your other goals. Perfection does not equal happiness.
